I’m really glad you’re here.
If you found your way to this space, I don’t believe it’s by accident. If you’re anything like the women I work with, you’ve probably come to a point where you refuse to stay the same!
Maybe you’ve outgrown old versions of yourself.
Maybe you’re tired of starting over.
Maybe you’re ready to stop shrinking, stop second-guessing, and finally walk in who God is calling you to be.
Whatever it is… welcome.
Becoming HER was created for the woman who is ready for real growth and real transformation! Not just inspiration that fades, but change that actually shows up in how you think, how you live, and how you move.
This is for the woman who is ready to:
Heal from what she’s been carrying
Break cycles that keep repeating
Get clear on who she is and where she’s going
And build a life that actually aligns with her purpose
No pressure. No perfection. No pretending.
Just a space where you can be honest about where you are, and join other women that are intentional about where they’re going.
You don’t have to have it all figured out.
You just have to be willing to grow.
Take your time here. Breathe. Explore.
And if you feel that pull to go deeper… I’d be honored to walk alongside you in your journey.
—Whittney 🤍
Hey Sis!
What our Sister’s say…
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Can’t say enough!
"Can’t say enough about Whittney Kilgore!! She is the real deal! Sign up ladies if you want Christ-centered accountability and tools to be empowered!! She is an amazing coach🤍"
—K. Moon
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Being here has pushed me!
“Being here has pushed me to keep going, even when it’s uncomfortable. It’s encouraged me to dig deep, to lean into this season instead of running from it, and to truly start working on what I know I am called to do.”
—T. Terry
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This experience is something that I will forever remember!
This experience is something that I will forever remember! This is the start of my walk with christ , this is the start of me becoming H.E.R 🩷
—L. Crawley
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I thought I was good...
Before joining the Becoming Her community, I truly felt like I was closer to Jesus than I had ever been. I had been on this “healing” journey for years—checking all the boxes: building a support system, practicing mindfulness, establishing routines, and even seeking professional help. I stayed committed through storm after storm, determined to become the best version of myself.
But if I’m being real… I still didn’t feel whole. Something was missing. My emotions felt drained, and underneath it all, there was anger. I knew that being “healed” and walking in my best self should feel more joyful than what I was experiencing.
Then I saw that a pastor from my old home church, Pastor Whitney, was starting a cohort. I had connected with her before when she was the youth pastor, especially when it came to my children. My children are my forever ministry. They deserve to see their mother healed, happy, and whole after everything we’ve been through, especially the trauma from my two failed marriages.
Even still, I couldn’t shake the feeling that I should be further along in my healing. But God placed it on my heart to join Becoming Her, and baby, when I tell you it was exactly what I didn’t even know I needed!!
These past 90 days stretched me, grew me, and most importantly, kept me rooted in my faith. This mentorship didn’t just help me heal, it called me higher to become the woman God created me to be, walking boldly in purpose.
Pastor Whitney poured into us with tools, scriptures, and affirmations that took me deep into real soul and spirit work. I began to understand that healing is not a one-time destination, it’s an ongoing journey. A sacred process.
This community allowed me to truly see God’s hand on my life and gave me a deeper hunger to be in His presence. And I loved the diversity of women! Different ages, different professions, different stages in our lives- all seeking God and committed to Becoming Her.
What made it even more powerful was the space to be vulnerable, real, and accountable. Pastor Whitney pushed us to show up for ourselves in a way I had never experienced before. It was a full circle—encouragement, spiritual growth, emotional healing, accountability, and true sisterhood.
And my biggest takeaway? This is more than just a “support system”—this is community. We are not alone on this journey… and God never intended for us to be.
- J. Harris
Becoming H.E.R. was created for women who know they are called to more but may feel stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure how to move forward.
This community exists to help women:
• Heal from past experiences and emotional patterns
• Rebuild their identity through faith and self-awareness
• Develop healthy routines and discipline
• Break cycles that keep them playing small
• Step boldly into the woman God is calling them to be
Inside Becoming H.E.R., women are reminded that growth is not about perfection — it’s about intentional transformation.
Because becoming who you were created to be doesn’t happen by accident.
It happens on purpose.
Ready to Grow?
The Becoming HER community is for you!!
Go Deeper…
If you’ve made it this far, something in you is ready for more.
More clarity.
More growth.
More alignment with who God is calling you to be.
This isn’t about surface-level change or temporary motivation. This is about doing the real work! Healing what needs to be healed, breaking patterns that have kept you stuck, and moving forward with intention.
You don’t have to have everything figured out. You just have to be willing to take the next step.
If you’re ready to grow for real, gain clarity, and start walking in the version of you that you know is there… I’m here to walk with you.
This isn’t something I’m just talking about… I’ve actually walked it! Now, I’m helping other women of God do the same… Will you be next?
